s I sit here reding the news report nd following the news medi bout the devsttion tht occurred in Moore, Oklhom nd the surrounding communities nd the events tht unfolded the dy before in Oklhom nd Knss, I hve to wonder why does this lwys seem to hppen.? I m sure tht I m not the only one who is wondering why this hppens.? Of course, this is trx reviews n ct of nture nd we cnnot control nture.? I begn thinking bout how ll of us lwys feel so unprepred for loss nd for the grief tht follows.? Not only were homes nd businesses lost but mny lives, some old nd who were so very young.? My hert goes out to ll of the fmilies who hve been ffected becuse they did not do nything, they were simply living their life nd ll of the sudden n E4 torndo sits down nd tkes everything they hve wy.? I m especilly touched by the fct tht there were 27+ children who were killed simply going to school to lern like ny other dy. ??s prent, I m deeply sddened by this. ?s prents, when we drop our children off t school, we expect this to be one of the sfest plces for them to be besides by our side.
s community, I wonder wht we cn do to help these fmilies.? t this time, the grief is overwhelming nd it is devstting.? Losing loved one brings so mny emotions but this coupled with the fct they my hve lost loved one nd ll of their worldly possessions brings mny more emotions to del with.? Grieving is process with mny stges.? It is humn nture to wnt to help but then comes the question ??wht cn I do???? There my not be lot tht we cn do but hering the words ??I m here nd I m hppy to help, if you need me?? cn be words of comfort.? More importntly, it is the rebuilding process tht is going to be so importnt.? Not only rebuilding the house nd the structures tht were destroyed but lso the lives of these fmilies.? Often times fter loss, the sibling??s loss is neglected.? The focus tends to be directed towrds the prents or the surviving spouse.?? My word of dvice is to not forget tht the sibling??s loss is eqully s devstting s the prent??s loss.? Do not forget to sk how the siblings re doing.? Do not forget to sk how they re feeling nd wht they remember.? I encourge people in my book, Mking Lemonde:? Choosing Positive Pthwy fter Losing Your Sibling to lwys keep people fond in your hert.? Tlk bout the good nd the bd.? Most importntly, do not forget to lugh bout stuff.? This is wht keeps people live nd keeps them vibrnt.? It is possible in the dys hed tht we could experience more loss nd more fmilies could be ffected but know tht wht you cn do is be there nd be supportive of them in the coming weeks nd months when they will need you most.